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The Widow Acts on Unfinished Business

August 28, 2018 Natalie Benek 4 Comments

I remember waking Aaron up on August 5th with annoying words, gentle kisses, and not so gentle prods from my…

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Time and The Widow

July 6, 2018 Natalie Benek 9 Comments

I have always had an abnormal sleep schedule. This time last year, the infinite annoyances from my pregnancy hindered sleeping.…

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Posted in: Uncategorized Filed under: birthdays, grief, time, time and the widow, widowhood

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Recent Posts

  • The Care Giver Experiences the Last Day of the First Year May 14, 2019
  • The Woe of the Widow’s Children April 18, 2019
  • The (Widow’s) Theory of Everything February 28, 2019
  • The Widow Encounters The Old Astronomer December 3, 2018
  • The Caregiver Goes On – exchanges grief for the permanent sadness of loss November 30, 2018
  • The Widow Embraces The Pain October 14, 2018
  • The Widow Acts on Unfinished Business August 28, 2018
  • The Caregiver Deals with Grief August 26, 2018
  • Time and The Widow July 6, 2018
  • The Care Giver Steps Through a Door July 5, 2018
  • The Care Giver Realizes He Is Two Persons June 23, 2018
  • The Care Giver Responds to Memory June 12, 2018
  • The Caregiver Enters a New Phase June 1, 2018
  • The Caregiver and the Final Days May 6, 2018
  • The Caregiver agrees with Socrates April 25, 2018
  • The Caregiver is Forced to Consider the Future April 19, 2018
  • The Caregiver Catches a Glimpse of the End April 17, 2018
  • Hospice brings a Kind of Peace to the Caregiver March 28, 2018
  • The Caregiver Finds Something That He Will Remember March 24, 2018
  • The Care Giver Is Reminded of the First Signs. March 13, 2018
  • Sue and I at 7 Years March 11, 2018
  • Stress and the Caregiver March 2, 2018
  • A Care Giver and Forgiveness February 15, 2018
  • Extra portions of grief for the care givers. February 3, 2018
  • Strategy for a Care Giver’s Survival January 23, 2018
  • Running Away and Staying Close – a Care Giver’s Life December 14, 2017
  • A Day in Our Life November 27, 2017
  • The Interaction of Religious Beliefs and Care Giving November 24, 2017
  • The Beliefs of a Devout Christian Woman November 23, 2017
  • The Beliefs of a Devout Christan Man November 23, 2017
  • The Beliefs of a Quiet Christian November 23, 2017
  • The Thought of a Secular Jew November 23, 2017
  • An Anti-Theist Looks at Belief November 23, 2017
  • My Journey From Believer to Atheist November 23, 2017
  • Do Beliefs Support a Care Giver? November 13, 2017
  • Dementia, Abuse and Divorce – Part II October 28, 2017
  • Dementia, Abuse and Divorce – Part I October 28, 2017
  • Are Words, even Silly Words, As Damaging as Disease? October 26, 2017
  • A New Look at ‘Deathwatch while Laughing’ October 22, 2017
  • Looking For – and Finding Friends with Benefits October 6, 2017
  • Persons with Dementia and Their Absent Friends September 29, 2017
  • Going Into Care – a story of me and John September 22, 2017
  • Speech and Language Pathologists and a frustrating statement September 14, 2017
  • The Caregiver Learns a New Lesson August 30, 2017
  • The Brain Does Not Always Comprehend What The Eyes See. August 23, 2017
  • Male Care Givers Are Different – but only on the surface August 15, 2017
  • The Damage Friends Do – secret hurts to caregivers August 8, 2017
  • Synchronicity July 27, 2017
  • Not the beginning of my caregiving experience but it is my first public blogging July 25, 2017
  • Back Home being a Caregiver again. January 8, 2017
  • A Caretaker Brings His Loved One Home December 22, 2016
  • A Caregiver Gives Over Care to a Hospital December 18, 2016
  • A Caregiver Learns to Understand the Incomprehensible December 6, 2016
  • A Caregiver Must Step Away From Pain December 4, 2016
  • A Caregiver Searches for a Finite Answer and Relief with the Expression of Grief. November 30, 2016
  • Things a Caregiver Learned About Life November 20, 2016
  • A Caregiver Dreams of a Possible Future November 17, 2016
  • A Caregiver Realizes The Subtle Things That Are Lost November 14, 2016
  • A Caregiver Remembers Smoothing the Blanket Over His Children November 10, 2016
  • A Caregiver Celebrates His Birthday November 3, 2016
  • A Caregiver Sees What It Means to Have things Really Tough October 15, 2016
  • The first thing a caregiver wants to know October 10, 2016
  • the value for a caregiver of support groups and keeping a journal October 1, 2016
  • A Caregiver learns from Encarcerated Men September 25, 2016
  • Epiphany #2 in Caregiving September 22, 2016
  • The Loss of System 1 Thinking September 17, 2016
  • I Spend My Life Waiting – Impatiently September 5, 2016
  • Nothing Important, Just the Usual Going Downhill Crap September 1, 2016
  • To the people in the FB Support Groups September 1, 2016
  • Behaving Badly August 7, 2016
  • Sitting in Dunkin Donuts August 2, 2016
  • There may not be treatment for the patient but there is for the caregiver. July 15, 2016
  • Nighttime Thoughts July 10, 2016
  • Deathwatch while laughing July 5, 2016
  • Why do Buddhists Pray? – notes from a non-theist foxhole. July 2, 2016
  • Five Stages of This and Three Parts of that July 1, 2016
  • My good friend, my lawyer June 20, 2016
  • Stages Basically Suck June 18, 2016
  • A Little Ounce of Humanity June 15, 2016
  • Introspection Sometimes Hurts June 12, 2016
  • Adventures in Learning June 12, 2016
  • Trying to keep track of what is happening May 26, 2016
  • Epiphany Number Two September 22, 2015

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